Much of our financial bad habits are formed somewhere between adolescence to adulthood, and as simplistic as this sounds, most of us have never really been taught how to manage our finances. We are taught that we should perform well in school and land that dream job, but never taught how to properly manage our finances and build generational wealth. So many of us have great careers but fail to take the necessary steps towards effectively managing our finances.
This isn’t anyone’s fault in particular, because it’s not something that we learn in school or for most of us learn at home, but you are expected to know what to do and that’s not the case. Don’t get me wrong, I’m certainly not irresponsible when it comes to money management, but I do recognise that I have made some fatal errors that have negatively impacted on my financial health.
I believe now more than ever that it’s imperative right those wrongs and teach my daughter healthy financial habits from an early age if I want to break the cycle of debt creation. Education is key, but part of educating your children should include providing them with the tools to develop healthy financial habits.
It’s not too late for me to learn and I am making steady progress by firstly recognising my mistakes and re-learning how to better manage my finances to rebuild my financial health. I am still on this journey but wanted to share some of the lessons I have learnt so far.
1. Know Your Financial Status
My journey so far has taught me that knowing your financial status is crucial whether you like it or not. There is no way you can become debt free if you bury your head in the sand and refuse to accept the state you are in. Knowing your credit score and debt status will help you to devise a plan of action. It’s free to check your credit status so there’s really no excuse.
2. Avoid Getting Into More Debt
Now I know this might be hard to achieve, but you have to try and avoid increasing your debts further. This means you are going to have to make sacrifices and ask yourself do I need this item or do I want it. I have fallen prey to this but I have learnt to go without holidays, new clothes every month and other frivolous expenditures. My mantra is if an offer seems too good to be true then it probably is.
3. Budget
This is probably one of the more crucial lessons. If you want to become more financially healthy you have to keep track of everything you spend and how much income you have. Create a list in excel of your income and expenditures because this will help you to budget properly. Do not be alarmed by this, because if you have large debts like student loans or credit cards this might be a depressing revelation but the main thing is that it will get better.
4. Seek Advice
I have found that speaking to a financial advisor has been essential, let’s face it they are paid to help you so why suffer in silence. Seek all the help and advice you can, there are debt management agencies Like Step Change that can assist or agencies like The Citizens Advice Bureau that you can contact. One of my favourite resources is Money Saving Expert , it has a wealth of information on how you can manage your finances and become more financially literate.